tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-734216381949554441.post7354502598858354539..comments2023-10-30T09:21:43.225-05:00Comments on Snooty Primadona's Sparkling Outlook On Life... Or Not: Bullying Personified....Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-734216381949554441.post-47607038724144712072010-12-18T22:57:42.158-06:002010-12-18T22:57:42.158-06:00Brilliant words and control in your life. I alway...Brilliant words and control in your life. I always winder when people tell me that I need to be the "bigger person" and forgive and forget. Sorry, not my job. When a family member treats you poorly and has the audacity to say something along the lines of "I need to be nice to my friends, but family will always be there for me," well, I have taken to educating them and telling them that I am not a doormat and if they cannot be kind and supportive, they can spew their venom elsewhere. I am much happier adn cannot be forced to care for people who do not care for themselves.<br /><br />LunachanceLunachancehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17445063945529096741noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-734216381949554441.post-11146235307964166242008-05-16T09:23:00.000-05:002008-05-16T09:23:00.000-05:00Kudo's to you for leaving them behind many years a...Kudo's to you for leaving them behind many years ago. Having the wisdom to know "they" aren't good for you.Treasia Stepphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10126382668167560512noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-734216381949554441.post-90251763234354492882008-05-16T09:06:00.000-05:002008-05-16T09:06:00.000-05:00Oh Snooty, thank you for talking about this with s...Oh Snooty, thank you for talking about this with such clarity.krystahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12531928118463332366noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-734216381949554441.post-87499842679226327252008-05-16T07:50:00.000-05:002008-05-16T07:50:00.000-05:00YOU go Snooty!YOU go Snooty!Meghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02085139753211292599noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-734216381949554441.post-89535608512326703782008-05-15T20:47:00.000-05:002008-05-15T20:47:00.000-05:00Hey Snooty, There are so many people who won't be ...Hey Snooty, There are so many people who won't be held accountable for their own lives and children, it could make you crazy. As you know I have one major blase person who has never said she's sorry in her entire life. Now her whole life is one hudge sorry mess. Neither one of her daughters will speak to her. But! She has done nothing wrong.Mamahuthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10731946745794016271noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-734216381949554441.post-25280527754948608692008-05-15T15:59:00.000-05:002008-05-15T15:59:00.000-05:00Always take the high road. And who is it that sai...Always take the high road. And who is it that said "what doesn't kill us makes us stronger."? I think that may be one of the most profound isms out there. Good for you, Snooty. Good for you.Mental P Mamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05957544840704376193noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-734216381949554441.post-4719298638160385342008-05-15T15:13:00.000-05:002008-05-15T15:13:00.000-05:00Lately, I wake up blissfully happy in the mornings...Lately, I wake up blissfully happy in the mornings for many reasons. However, it's lately been the fact that it's Summer and the other is getting to come to my blog & read everyone's smiling words. Then, I suddenly remember all the things I should be doing instead. I'm getting really good at blowing these things off, lol. I'd show you a picture as proof, but I still can't figure out what to do about my pictures since the Trojan Horse ate them. Mr. Snooty has this insane idea that if I actually purchase the ACDSee program (what? we didn't buy it??) that all of my pictures will magically reappear. *Sigh* Somehow, I don't think it's going to be that easy.Snooty Primadonahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10023417839687501752noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-734216381949554441.post-57650468936199728662008-05-15T14:45:00.000-05:002008-05-15T14:45:00.000-05:00See, blogs are therapy! You are so right in your ...See, blogs are therapy! <BR/><BR/>You are so right in your descriptions and I know many people who cannot get away from the clutches of screwed up parents. It's hard to imagine treating your children that way, it's senseless.<BR/><BR/>You are a strong woman and I've learned so much from you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-734216381949554441.post-60007836657503328862008-05-15T13:57:00.000-05:002008-05-15T13:57:00.000-05:00I have a hard time reading about these topics some...I have a hard time reading about these topics sometimes. Because as you say, the scars are for a lifetime. For a people pleaser such as myself, it takes a long time to say, "yeah, I can't do this anymore."<BR/><BR/>However, your very accurate in your assessment that we're ultimately accountable as adults... No matter how many times we're dropped on our heads as kids, we're obligated to become the best adult we can be. My brother opted out and has become one the of the biggest slease bags on the planet. He has the usual litany of excuses and things that were said to him, but the truth is, he's just pertetuating the misery. I cut off contact with him 15 years ago and only spoke with him briefly when Mom died. <BR/><BR/>These are still tough decisions, not to connect, not to have a bond with someone who shares your history. But sometimes you just have to do it... cuz some relationships just aren't healthy.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-734216381949554441.post-63044940012840125592008-05-15T12:47:00.000-05:002008-05-15T12:47:00.000-05:00I loved reading: "The way I see it, you can blame ...I loved reading: "The way I see it, you can blame your parents for the terrible mistreatment you received growing up. Because, well, you're just a kid. Fortunately, once you are away from their clutches, you are the only person to blame if things don't go in the right direction"<BR/><BR/>Because I truly that. And I say it all the time when confronted with the claim "I can't, I had a terrible (fill in the blank)".<BR/><BR/>Yes you damn well can.<BR/><BR/>Thanks!<BR/><BR/>:-<A HREF="http://onthem104.blogspot.com/" REL="nofollow">Daryl</A>Darylhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08241795455748298624noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-734216381949554441.post-69582811586591993022008-05-15T11:28:00.000-05:002008-05-15T11:28:00.000-05:00No matter the age for some reason the bad stuff is...No matter the age for some reason the bad stuff is always easier to believe. Why is that? Does it start with bullying by others or is/was it always there? <BR/><BR/>I really wonder sometimes. <BR/><BR/>It's not just families that paralyze you. it can be anyone that has power. For me it was the nuns at my grade school. My Mom was great but the mental torture I rec'd at the hands of those nuns...it still makes me angry.scargosunhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14911826980781124597noreply@blogger.com