And My Decision is....

First of all, I want to thank everyone for their honest opinions. When I first saw the ads in the newspaper, I thought, "Wow! I'd love to do that!" After some deep thinking, I've finally come to a decision. I don't think I want to waste any of the time I have left on this earth with something as silly as plastic surgery. Why would I even consider this when I have so much to do here in order to get the house ready for putting it on the market? We need to spend our money doing this.... not on making me look better to placate my inner child.

Once I really thought about the money and the downtime, I think I finally realized that I'm not willing to give up any more of the time or money we have left. I want to sell this house and move. If I had either surgery, it would seriously alter my plans for a big move. I mean, how could I possibly get anything done after a surgery? Either surgery would suspend the time it's going to take to get this house ready for getting on the market and I guess I want that more than I want arches in my feet or the sags on my face tightened.

Sometimes I just need a *reality check* and this was certainly a biggie. It has helped me to put my life and thoughts in order. I want out of this house and that is where I should be focusing my energy and intent. Mr. Snoots loves me as I am, so it's not like I'd be doing the face lift for him. I'd be doing it strictly for vanity and I've never really thought of myself as being vain. I like to look good but I'm not looking to upgrade on my man, so why would I waste my time?

Besides, if I had the face lift, Mr. Snoots and I wouldn't look like we *go together* anymore. If I had my feet done and something went wrong, there's a huge possibility that I might never walk again. I'm not willing to take either risk. Life is short and we need to just be happy with the time we have left here on this planet called earth. So, I guess you could say I'm totally over my momentary quandary. I need to keep my eye on the ball and get us out of this ridiculously large house. I need to see my children as often as I possibly can. I need a pool to swim in every day, which will actually make me look much better anyway.

So, I want to say a BIG THANK YOU to everyone that commented. You have no idea how much you helped me in making this decision. I don't think I'll be having those thoughts again... ever. I think it's more important to be healthy and happy, don't you? The stress of not being able to see my kids or take a vacation would take a much larger toll on me than living with my imperfections.

Oh, and then I remembered an adorable older lady that we used to have sit with the kids when we went out of town. She came to stay with them once and asked me what I thought about her face lift. I couldn't even tell she'd had one. She was still old, just like I am now. But, she wasn't healthy looking, which is perhaps why I couldn't tell she looked better. I'm now sure that I'd rather look healthy and happy than take unnecessary risks by going under the knife. Besides, the thought of no vacations is more than I could possibly stand. Snooty needs vacations in order to survive.

End of discussion...

I Have A Hypothetical Question For My Blog Buddies... Obviously, I Need Help In Making A Decision

Okay, here's the deal. The same surgeon that performed my Abdominoplasty (tummy tuck) is now offering face lifts with a ten day recovery period. Huh? Yup, TEN DAYS. It's about $5,000.00 and believe me, I'd trust this doctor to the ends of the earth because he is really caring and one of the best in the field of plastic surgery; in these parts anyway. He claims that this new procedure lasts longer and is much safer. It's called a Cranial Suspension Short Incision Face Lift with minimal downtime using local anesthesia. This sounds like just *the ticket* for someone like me who has (after many surgeries) developed a fear of going under the knife. Yes, I think this would be by far preferable to the old *nip and tuck* face lift of days gone by. It's certainly something worth considering. Normally, with all the costs added together a face lift is up around $35,000.00, which is more than I'd ever spend.

Then, a couple of young doctors opened up a practice locally where they offer the latest technology in foot and ankle pain management without needles and drugs, the "Pediatric/Adult Flatfoot Reconstruction", which I didn't even realize existed until now. I'm uncertain as to what it costs, but for someone who has been teased unmercifully about her flat feet for an entire lifetime, I'm thinking this might be like the dream of a lifetime, come true. Frankly, I'd have to see and talk with someone (or several someones) before I ever decided to dive in head first, but just the thought of having arches in my feet makes me totally giddy.



These are the feet I was given at conception and lived with for 57 years. Sometimes they really hurt, having to walk around on my ankles isn't all fun, you know. Sure, I'm a great swimmer, but that is the ONLY advantage to having flat feet.

So, here is my dilemma: Mr. Snoots says I could pick one and have it done, BUT there would be no vacations or trips to see the kids or anything else for a year. Hmmmm... So, speaking hypothetically, would either be worth it? Which one would be more worthy? Having my sagging upper eyelids, under eye bags, sagging jowls and turkey neck fixed or having arches in my feet for the first time in 57 years? Would it be worth only seeing my children at Christmastime? I just don't know. I'm in a complete quandary over this, so I'd appreciate a bit (or a ton) of input here. These are things that really plague and occupy my mind right now but I'm not sure I could stay put for a whole year without seeing my kids or taking a vacation.

Quite obviously, I need help in making a decision and I'm nearly in tears at the thought of having to choose. Any thoughts from anyone? Or experience? Should I just blow them both off and learn to accept my aging process, therefore continuing to take a few vacations every year and see my kids more often? I keep thinking of things like: What if I did one of these, missed seeing my kids, then I have something happen and I die? Would it have been worth it then? Of course not. No one can weigh the pros and cons of a situation better than I... To the point that I cannot make decisions about things of this caliber.

This picture was almost a year ago and it's not getting any better.... I don't want to hear what you think I want to hear. I want to hear what you really think. I can't help but wonder if either procedure is worth the risk.

Any thoughts out there? Clearly, I must trust all of you or I wouldn't be asking, so help me out here. Please? Pretty please?